As a wife of one and a mom of four, it seems like I am always learning and discovering! I know I am not alone. Let’s just admit it: The world is a big place, life is a lesson, and children can be the best teachers. Normally my series, Life Lessons with Mexico Mom, is hosted on Los Gringos Locos, but today I am posting here on World Moms Blog.
Here are my insights and experiences as a Mexico Mom for this week:
Life Lesson 43: There is a worldwide mommy clique. Let’s be honest. You have single cliques, couple cliques, and parent cliques. So far, in Mexico, we have not found our mommy and daddy clique. We have some wonderful friends, who we love very much, but they are either single or married without kids. I truly miss our parent clique in Louisville, Kentucky. Perhaps we need to widen out. Our family loves people so that shouldn’t be hard to do, we just need to make the effort. Parents understand parents. That is the mommy and daddy clique. Welcome to World Moms Blog, where we are all moms, all around the world 🙂
Life Lesson 44: Check your feet before you leave the house. The other day I left the house with my oldest daughter to go in our ministry. We were several blocks away when I realized I was still wearing my tacky, blue, house slippers. We turned around and a minute later Alexis exchanged my slippers for my sandals. My husband and my daughter had a good laugh. If I had actually made it to our destination before realizing what I was wearing, I wouldn’t have been able to change them. I would have walked around Morelia, Michoacan, Mexico in house slippers. That is what you get for being a busy, ADHD, mom of four!
Life Lesson 45: If your kid has a cold and is coughing up a storm, beware of spontaneous vomit. Both of our boys have a cold. They are miserable, with runny noses, coughing and hacking. Yesterday I was comforting our 20 month old. Then he proceeded to vomit milk in my hair. I was grossed out despite being quite familiar with pee, poo, snot, and vomit from my last 11 years of parenting. Brad cleaned the baby while I took a hot shower. FYI: Milk isn’t the best during a cold. It tends to increase the mucus. I should have known…
What life lesson did you learn this past week? Please share it with us below. We want to hear your thoughts from around the world!
This is an original post to World Moms Blog by Tina Marie Ernspiker. Tina can be found blogging over at Los Gringos Locos. She is also on Facebook and Twitter.
Photo credit to A. Hurst Photography
This reminds me of a time a friend came over when my oldest was a baby … she had just fed yet he held her high above his head, and made her giggle over and over … right up until she threw up.
And yes, some went in his opened, laughing mouth.
And he was a dad of 4, should totally have known better 😉
I hear you on the parents group! We just moved to a new neighborhood and have yet to make connections. Hopefully this will improve over time, but it makes it hard. Happy Friday!
Lesson number 46: Don’t panic when you find your toothbrush in the fridge and it was you who put it there. It might be early Alzheimer but most likely you were just tired 😉
It’s hard not to find your “parent people.” We lived abroad for 4 years and it’s hard to start over and find your feet in a new place!
Awesome life lessons! I agree on the cliques and still trying to find mine too here which is a bit challenging.
For me, life lessons this week is: finding my own peace. I have struggled with this until I realized I control my own peace, no one else 🙂
PS: Ewa I just LOVE you!
I would totally do the slipper thing!! Great tips, Tina!!
Jen 🙂
I almost did the slipper thing the other day as well! I call it “busy mom brain” 😉
Oh – and a long the lines of Ewa’s comment, I “lost the cordless house phone for a few days. I finally came across it (after it had driven me crazy) in my closet, nestled into my sweaters. Pesky busy mom brain again! 🙂
🙂